
"Hi! I'm Darryl Strawberry! I did crack and I am an acting ambassador to the game! I was at the 2007 Draft and you weren't!"
Sean Taylor, Fred Smoot, among others have certainly had their share of off-the-field issues and it all seems to gets cancelled out by the play on the field.
Paul LoDuca lied to his 19 y/o mistress about his marital status and has gotten tied up with betting accusations
Steve Trachsel allegedly gave his girl the clap
Frank Robinson didn't have any qualms about having his mistress around the team the whole time.
These guys regularly have their share of incidents, and most of these married guys are sleeping with strippers on the road and getting into fights with their wives at home, while crossing themselves at home plate on Sundays.
Pro sports are filled with guys with all kinds of "character" issues who have had run ins with the law and have plenty of "domestic issues" with their wives and/or girlfriends/strippers. Youth and inexperience mixed with a perpetual frat house environment, booze, lots of money, and a constant parade of groupies has a tendency to produce some bad behavior. Throw in a rougher background, poorer education, a big chip on the shoulder, and a few kids with the girlfriend by the age of 20, and the problems only escalate for someone living in a hyper-testosterone environment.
These are very young people living very abnormal lives who are often ill-equipped to handle certain situations. Many have come from backgrounds where they have felt disenfranchised and mistreated. And overall, pro sports are not filled with a bunch of angels. This kid is not the first person to have some very damning things come out about him that make him seem like some savage. We tend to look the other way when someone is more familiar. People questioned the backgrounds of both Young and Belliard before he came in. Sometimes there is more under the surface that doesn't get reported.
But we can't pretend that there aren't plenty of athletes in all sports who haven had problems. Everyone has flaws, and most people, if their worst behavior was the only thing anybody sees would look pretty terrible.
I think the team needs to be very careful with a guy like Dukes, but need to approach this with a more open mind. They should be able to determine how much risk there really is and whether they believe this guy can be productive within the organization.