I don't necessarily think "bullied" is an accurate description. I think it's more of a case of some people having a tactful way with words, and others not. That can make certain things uncomfortable, including online message boards, and even if not the target, it gets tiresome and make a board not a worthwhile place to visit. But this board generally displays much more geniality than any of the others I visit. There is nothing wrong with disagreements, and generally, most disagreements here have been handled quite well. There have been some exceptions, and usually the same people are involved, but even then there have only been few that I've felt sophomoric or carried on too long.
I haven't been around much in the past few weeks, but haven't noticed any posts out of the norm on the times I came in for a quick glance (however, I am often know as Mr. Oblivious). I did notice something Kimnat alluded to, though. There are certain posters, who when I see their names have having been the last to post to a thread, I will always make a point of viewing the thread regardless of its topic. Many of those people have seemed to be absent recently as well.
As for natsfan1a, I will miss her insights. She lead me to some great books on scorekeeping, and even her own methods of doing so. For that and everything else she shared, I am grateful. Without exception, she always presented herself as someone I would love to have for a neighbor and a friend.
