I completely agree. Example: if you spill coffee on someone as a joke, and they get so mad they kill a random person, should the person that spilled the coffee be charged with murder? I think not.
There is, to the best of my understanding, a huge difference. Spilling coffee on somebody, even as a joke, isn't a felony. As I understand it, there is often a statute that says if anybody dies as a result of the committing of a felony, even if indirect, the person(s) who committed the felony are responsible for the deaths and can face a murder charge.
I know of one weird case down here. Short version: An acquaintance of mine is a member of the Outlaws biker gang. He was one of three members who were dispatched to execute a member of a rival gang. The intended victim heard them coming, shot through the door, and killed one of them. My acquaintance was charged with 1st degree murder of his own gang member. However, in typical Florida fashion,
all charges were subsequently dropped.