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Offline English Natsie

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Meowser
« Topic Start: August 13, 2024, 05:59:42 PM »
Saddest of days, at Natsie Towers - Meowser passed away, peacefully, this morning. I haven't been commenting, on the board, but he'd been a poorly puss for some time - at one stage we thought he would be gone long before now. He was generally himself, virtually to the end - the speed of his decline, over just a few hours, was incredible. We called the vet to the house, to save him any stress - had we had to make that decision, then we would have done what was best for him, not us. However, the vet assured us that the end was near, and so she stayed to make sure he was comfortable and not distressed - 20 minutes later, he was gone. I'm glad he held on to see one last Titans game (albeit pre-season). When the Chiefs play the Titans, there'll be a tear on my cheek...

For the interested, here's some of his story. Poor Meowser had a challenging start, in life - he was given away, as an unwanted kitten, to a completely unsuitable keeper who proceeded to subject him to a year of neglect and abuse, the result of which was some permanent injuries from kicks / blows/ having objects thrown at him. He was literally rescued, by the local Animal Rescue group - his keeper subsequently received a lifetime ban from keeping animals. They knew we were looking and so, based on our experience of cats, asked if we could try to give him a kind and loving home - if we couldn't, then it was thought that he would have to spend his days at the Rescue Center, as it was unlikely anyone else could take him on. After discussion, with Mrs Natsie, we decided he deserved better than to be left at the Center, so we said 'yes'. When he arrived at ours, he shot out of his basket and hid - he was, of course, a severely traumatized puss. He then proceeded to pace around the house, constantly meowing, 24/7 - which is how he got his name. After 28 days of broken sleep, Mrs Natsie was beginning to fray, but I couldn't give up on him. So.. mustering all of the faux authority I could, I said that we had to give him 35 days, to be sure - desperately hoping that Mrs N wouldn't ask where that figure came from...At the end of Day 34, we went to bed to the sound of meowing, and I was beginning to despair. We awoke, on the morning of Day 35, to...silence.. When I went through, to where he was, he was curled up, seemingly quite settled. And so he was here to stay - it was, of course, just the start of a long process of gaining his trust, and letting him know how much he was loved. He never quite shook-off everything - he always ran and hid if strangers came to the house. And Mrs Natsie conceded that mine were the only feet he trusted to be near him - whenever he needed reassurance, he would seek me out. I like to think we gave him the caring home he deserved, and I would forgive him everything - even when he refused to accept that ours was a Chiefs household...he stayed true to his Titans right to the end.

If there is place where good kitties go , then Meowser will be there - where treats are never ending, and the Titans always win...

Offline Dave in Fairfax

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #1: August 13, 2024, 06:22:01 PM »
RIP kitteh

Offline imref

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #2: August 13, 2024, 06:50:03 PM »
his keeper got off easy. I'm glad you were able to give him a good life. Sorry for your loss.  We had to put our 11 year old cat down in January, he had been my sidekick since we got him. I still think of him multiple times a day and often look at pictures and videos of him. It's not easy.  I'm glad Meowser was able to be at peace.

Offline Natsinpwc

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #3: August 13, 2024, 06:53:30 PM »
My condolences Natsie. 

Offline wj73

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #4: August 13, 2024, 08:11:32 PM »
How wonderful to give this broken kitty the security and love he’d never had before. Abused animals have their quirks for sure. It sounds like you accepted him where he was at, and gave him the space and time he needed to learn to trust again. And when the end time came, you eased him onto the next plane with love and caring, despite your heartbreak.


I am so sorry.



Love the completely made-up on the spur of the moment 35 Day Rule. 🥹





Offline JCA-CrystalCity

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #5: August 13, 2024, 09:28:55 PM »
sorry to hear this, EN. I'm glad he got to experience a loving home. I'm sorry for the hole in your home now, but you did right by him all the way.

Offline English Natsie

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #6: August 14, 2024, 04:43:50 AM »
Thank you, all, for your kind comments - appreciated by both of us.

Offline 1995hoo

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #7: August 14, 2024, 10:24:18 AM »
Very sorry to hear that. You gave me various helpful advice when our long-time feral cat visitor Fraidy died and we adopted Precious shortly afterwards, advice I still very much appreciate.

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #8: August 14, 2024, 01:26:27 PM »
Very sorry to hear that. You gave me various helpful advice when our long-time feral cat visitor Fraidy died and we adopted Precious shortly afterwards, advice I still very much appreciate.
Precious? I went to college with a woman named Precious. Precious Grace [last name withheld].

Offline Dave in Fairfax

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #9: August 14, 2024, 03:38:38 PM »
Precious? I went to college with a woman named Precious. Precious Grace [last name withheld].
Precious? I had a ring I called Precious. Some filthy hairy-footed midget tried to throw it into a volcano, but I got the last laugh. Wait, is it getting warm around here?

Offline English Natsie

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #10: August 14, 2024, 06:28:47 PM »
Very sorry to hear that. You gave me various helpful advice when our long-time feral cat visitor Fraidy died and we adopted Precious shortly afterwards, advice I still very much appreciate.

Glad to hear Precious is doing well -please pass on my regards to her...and it was my pleasure to help in any small way.

Offline Ali the Baseball Cat

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #11: August 15, 2024, 03:54:22 AM »
Very sorry Natsie, I know the feeling all too well. 

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #12: August 17, 2024, 04:18:41 PM »
Oh man I’m sooo sorry!! Meowser sounded like an awesome kitty and was clearly so loved, hugs to you across the miles!

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #13: August 17, 2024, 04:42:44 PM »

I never know what to say...losing our best friends is overwhelming and there's little comfort for that sadness.  Hopefully another comes into your life, or you come into theirs...


Offline English Natsie

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Re: Meowser
« Reply #14: August 18, 2024, 04:15:03 AM »
My thanks, again, for all of your kind, and appreciated, comments - this week has placed baseball in its proper perspective, in life.

Just for those who wonder what I'm talking about - from the first NFL season we had Meows, he would always appear from nowhere and sit in front of the TV, transfixed, once he heard the word 'Titans', in commentary. The first time we thought it was endearing, and even mildly amusing - 'the things cats do - I wonder what attracted him?...'. But next week, he was back - and so it continued, week-in - week-out, season after season. If I didn't have the Titans game on , there would be indignant meowing!  Apologies to 'Niners fans, but I was glad his final game was a Titans win, albeit that we weren't expecting it to be the last time... :(