I'm not following here...care to explain why you tried to steer the conversation to a more adult topic?
There was a commercial on MASN (during MASH) for the Tyra Banks show (?) that featured various women talking about love life problems. One was asking how she could tell her boyfriend how to hit the "right" spot. Of course, we were dancing around the topic with our two kids who were watching. I'm not sure my 8 year old daughter needs to find her spot yet.
So my earlier comment would have made sense only to someone who had seen the commercial.
Sorry, I'll try not to make such obscure references in the future.