I've been thinking about the official's involvement. I think the correct answer to "Can I call a timeout?" is "Yes". Who is he to assume Gibbs doesnt want to call it and take the penalty? Maybe icing the kicker is that important to Gibbs. Hell, the guy made the first attempt from 51, maybe Gibbs didnt see much difference between 36 and 51 yards. Plus with the penalty, it is like a double icing effect
You have to ask "Will I get a penalty if I call another time out?"
Is the "The official told me I could, but hey, it's my fault" line the same thing as the "I'm not going to use injury as an excuse" line?
You come across as being accountable, but plant the seed that it is not your fault. If you dont want to use something as an excuse dont bring it up at all.