While I am with you, stomaching 102 losses of any kind sucks no matter how you slice it. The difference is, typically a 3-2 puts you out of your misery in less time.
Also, in an 11-10 game, you think that your offense has a legit chance of outscoring them because, well, they scored 10 runs. But in a 3-2 game, the offense hasn't produced nearly as much so it's easier to take. In theory it's the same (other than the length), but for an actual fan you get more hope in a high scorer IMO.