I'm a fan of the ritual as well
Cool, I can dig that.
The first time I visited my (then) future in-laws, I was assigned the task of pouring the red wine into the (Waterford Crystal) dinner wine glasses. The table was set for 12, elegant with white linen table cloth, china, crystal. As I moved down the row, I saw a small dribble coming down a glass, and hustled over and wiped it off. As I moved on, I looked back again, and to my horror there was a small red stain on the cloth. I once again wiped up as good as possible, but when it happed the third time, I was very perplexed, not to mention the table cloth now had a red stain at least 6" across.
Upon further inspection, the glass itself had a tiny hole, where the Waterford crystal carver had made an incision just a teensy weensy bit too deep, leaving a cut in the glass. The glass had never been used before.
So much for careful ritual.